Bye bye to our " TOTO GRACE".....

Today we had to say goodbye to auntie Grace, who works with us in the Kitchen since April 2006. It is because of health problems that she had to stop cooking in our kitchen. Grace was like the mother of the family, cooking and caring for everyone in the house. She was one of the Amecet family...

 In 2011 Amecet celebrate the 10 year anniversary with a march through Soroti town, Auntie Grace marches with us!

 She loves children and she has also patience with them, a very good thing in Amecet!

 2011 eating Mango's with the kitchen crew

 Serving us......

 Planting a tree....

2014 Amunweek and 60 extra people to feed! Auntie Grace is cooking with the kitchen crew.

Aunti Grace you have been cooking so many pots of Posho and Beans in all those years, you have cooked so many chickens for us, backed thousands of Mandazi's and so much more!!! We thank you for all the work you did, for your smile in the house, for your caring and we pray that you can enjoy your so much deserved rest... That your back will heal and you can enjoy your grandchildren, caring for you!! May God bless you!!

A BIG HUG FROM ALL OF US IN AMECET:

Amecet outreach......

Every week we go on "outreach" as Amecet Ministry. Dominique, Emmanuel and me visit the local Prison and the Therapeutic Feedings Centre (TFC) in Soroti Hospital. In the Prison, we visit the women side, where also mothers with children stay. We started this weekly visit, many years ago. We got  a malnourished child via the social worker from the Prison. We took that child in Amecet, but then we saw that there were more children staying with their mothers in the Prisons. Some of the children were even born there! The children were not doing so well, their diet was poor and they were sickly. As Amecet leadership, we decided to do a weekly outreach to the Prisons. Every week we bring the mothers with a children, one kg. Sugar, one kg. Porridge flour and a bar of laundry soap. I think we do it now for more than 6 years. If there is a child which is really not doing well and there is no way that relatives of the mother will help, we do take the child for some time in Amecet. When the child is stable, the child goes back to the mother. We bring sometimes clothes for the children, bananas or oranges, we help sometimes with medicines and we bring them sometimes some toys. In 2014, we were able to build a small playground in the women section of the Prison yard and the children can play now.

At the moment there are 14 mothers with young children (between 0-3 years) in the Prison. the number changes every time, mothers are released and new ones are brought to Prison. We have seen a big impact from our small weekly gift. The children are doing well, but it is sad that the children are growing up in such a place.....

The second place where we go to every week, is the feedings centre in Soroti Hospital (TFC). There are mothers or caretakers staying with severe malnourished children in this centre. The children are referred by other wards or doctors, to TFC. They have to stay here, sometimes for months..... It is not easy for the caretaker to stay with the child for a very long time in this ward, often there are other children at home and they  are worried about them as well. There are often very sick children in TFC and it does happen regularly, that when we come and we ask about a child who we met there the week before, that we get the answer, that the child died.. The nurses ask us sometimes to admit a child from TFC in Amecet, we have a good relationship with the TFC personel.

We give the same packet as in the Prisons and the small supplement helps towards the healing of the child. They are always very thankful with the gift.

This little boy was very malnourished, he had oedema and was very sick. This week, he was so happy and smiling. The porridge flour, sugar and soap made him very happy.

This little girl is still very sick, the grandmother is caring for her and she was  encouraged by our gift.

This boy is doing also much better, he might even be discharged by next week, when we come again to TFC. One week there are 4 children, the next week 7 and after that maybe only 3 children. It changes every week. We sometimes bring some clothes or small toys. we pray for children and try to have small talks with the caretakers. We know that our visit gives them hope and encouragement!!

Mensje wat ben je mooi / little person, you are so beautiful

This is baby Jennifer, a very sweet baby with Down Syndrome. Yesterday, she was brought in Amecet, when she was 4 days old. Today we brought her back to her village, to be buried.  

Monday we were asked to come to the clinic next door, there was a small baby born by an emergency Cesarean operation. The mother was very young, around 15 years, she was a Down syndrome and she was very confused. The doctor wanted us to see the baby, in case the mother would reject her, to be cared for in Amecet. We told them that is was fine, but of course, first they would try the mother (and the grandmother) to care for the little girl. But yesterday, they asked our help, the mother didn't reject the baby, but could not feed her and the baby was very weak and quite yellow. We took the baby in, tried to feed her, but she couldn't suck, so we had to give her a NG tube, through the tube we could feed her every 3 hours. She had fever and we had to give her medicines via the I.V, 

The whole story was very sad, the mother was raped and that is how she got pregnant, the delivery had had quite an impact on the young girl, and the emergency operation as well.

This morning I had just laid Jennifer before the window, in the daylight, for her jaundice, A bit later I came back to check her temperature and she was gone.........It was such a shock, just like that, gone...

I went to the clinic, next door, where the mother and the grandmother were still admitted, I talked with the doctor and they talked with the grand mother. They came to see the baby and later they brought the mother. My heart went to this young girl, she was confused, she recognized her baby, but I don't know if she realized that her baby had died. She was so young, so vulnerable, so sweet and so lost...

We talked with the doctor and they told us that she was ready to be discharged. So after we got a small coffin, Elias and I drove to their village, with the Mother and the grandmother and the small coffin with the body of  Jennifer. 

The words on the shirt of the baby are in Dutch: mensje, wat ben je mooi, it means in English: little person, you are so beautiful !!! And she was beautiful and we cared for her for only 22 hours. But she made an impression in my heart. And so did her small mother, I feel anger towards the guy who took advantage of the good trust of this young girl. There is sometimes so much injustice and so much suffering because of that injustice....

Read about my "baby-day"......

 It was a real "baby day", today. The baby on the picture above, Mary, was one of the three new baby's we got in Amecet today. But it all started with Joseph:

 This is Joseph, He was brought early in the morning. We just finished our small meditation, which we always read in the morning with our staff, when we saw them coming into our compound. The story is sad. On Monday, the mother felt labour pain and went on her way to the health centre. But the baby came, she got some help from some ladies, who took her to a neighbours house, there was Joseph born, but the mother died, due to heavy bleeding. There is a lot of confusion in the family, there is someone who wants to care for him, but it was the best solution that Joseph for some time in Amecet stays, so the family can organize themselves. When we had all the information and Joseph was laying in his bed, Deborah (our nurse) and me went with 4 children to the hospital, for their ARV's (HIV medicines). This took some time and when we were almost finished, I got a phone call from the maternity ward in the hospital. There was a little baby, who lost his mother yesterday, the family was desperate, could we help?? We brought the children back to Amecet and Deborah and I went back to the hospital...

And there we heard the story of Simon (sorry for the pink clothes, but this is a boy) The mother was referred to the hospital from another health centre, because, the labour didn´t go well. They took her to the theatre and she had a Cesarean operation. the operation went well, but later the mother got problems with breathing, she died shortly after. The grandmother was with the baby and they didn´t know what to do. The father wasn´t there. She was very thankful for our help. the baby looks healthy and we got all the information about the family, we were ready to go, when the doctor came to ask us about another baby......

And that baby was Mary! Mary was born 3 weeks ago, also by a Cesarean operation. But the mother has a mental problem and is malnourished, the baby is also severe malnourished. They are still in the hospital and the grandmother tries to care for both of them. This baby needs help, the doctors had advised the family to bring the baby to Amecet, but the family didn´t dare or didn´t want. Now they saw us coming in and talk with the family of Simon and they saw that we were going to take baby Simon to Amecet, now they asked if we also could help baby Mary. We saw that baby Mary was in a bad condition, so we talked and asked the grandmother to come, with the baby in our car, to Amecet. So we could do the intake there (I had no extra forms with me..) We arrived in Amecet with two new baby´s instead of one. We weighed Mary and her weight was only 1.8 kg and she is three weeks old! We heard from the grandmother that they had feed her sugar water, they had no money for milk... 

This means that we have now 18 little baby´s in Amecet. yesterday, the hospital called me for baby Stella ( on picture left). She was also born on the way, her mother was on the way to the hospital. Her mother got severe bleeding and she passed away.

Than Gideon came to us, also via the hospital, the mother has a mental problem and he was born on the streets in Soroti. Later brought to the hospital. The mother walked out of the hospital, leaving Gideon behind....

These are twins, they were brought to us last week. left is the girl, Beatrice, her weight is 3 kg and at the right is her twin brother, Michael, his weight his 2 kg. He has some problems with drinking, he doen´t drink enough, so we gave him a NG tube, only for some days, so he can get his feeding without the hard work of the sucking..There mother died after a Cesarean operation, the baby´s were both breech.

We got baby Noel and the next day another baby girl was brought, baby Noelle, both had lost their mother. A baby boy from around 2 months was found along the way in Serere (neighboring district). The Police brought him to Amecet and they are doing the tracing of the mother. Baby Ruth was brought from Jinja, her parents are working with YWAM and the mother got serious complications after the delivery. In total we have 18 small baby´s.

Please keep us in your prayers, Pray that baby Mary picks up, she is not doing well, pray for the staff, it is a lot of work. All the new baby´s are fed throughout  the night......  Every time when we get a new baby into Amecet and I am writing down the story in our intake report, I am touched, several of our new baby´s were born on the road, those poor mothers.... All those families are now without a mother...who cares now for all those children? The mothers have a very important role in the family.