Amecet n'ainapakin (Shelter of Peace) is a ministry of Youth With A Mission (YWAM)in Soroti, Uganda. We are reaching out to HIV infected and affected children. We also are caring for new born babies, who lost their mother after the delivery. The third group of children we help, are children who need a safe place, they mostly come via the police. In this blog we want to share with you our stories, our pictures, our needs and blessings!

Friday, October 17, 2014

Joy and worries....

It has been a busy week, with lots of worries, but I start with the JOY!!! August 18 we got a little baby brought in Amecet by the police. It was a new born baby, the mother has a mental problem, and after some talking we knew that this was the second baby we got in Amecet from the same mother. In my blogs of June 15 and June 19 2012, you can read how we got Levi (is now called Silas) came into Amecet and how we went to visit the mother, but she didn't even recognise her child. This little boy found a loving family (read the blog from September 19, 2012). This family are missionaries in Soroti and we do see them regularly. We knew that they were thinking about a second child, so we told them about the little girl Hellen. They responded positive and after all the legal papers with Probation office and Court, Silas welcomed his little biologic sister in his family. It was so nice to see how welcome this little girl was. We pray for this family: Collin, Veronica, Silas and Hellen Rosser.
Than the worries:

 We have been busy this week with Thomas, the little baby I wrote about the my last blogs. He had diarrhea and stopped drinking, got fever and we had to start feeding him with a NG tube. He has been on IV drip and we were really worried about him. He is so fragile, we have not yet heard any news about his family, so that is also a big concern. Since today, he is doing a bit better, but he lost weight, so please keep praying for him.
We are also very concerned about Gabdesia. She is very sick, we have the feeling that she is giving up. She refuse to eat and to take medication. Please pray for her, that we are able to really reach her, that it is not too late.
Janneke our nurse, is on a well deserved holiday to Holland. Together with the volunteers, I wrote about in my last blog, we care for those precious children. I am not living anymore on the Amecet compound, so we really need to work together with Dominique and the volunteers. I am really thankful that God send the right people, when we need them!

Sunday, October 12, 2014

Thank God for volunteers...

We get very regular volunteers, people who come to help us for some time. We welcome them, because they always bring fresh views and ideas. And also many time they bring things for the home....
Yesterday two ladies from Holland arrived, Marlinde and Riemke. And they brought two full suitcases for Amecet... Many packets of baby wipes (we love those..and the baby's too!) and slippers clothes and etc. etc. The children came into the office, where we unpacked the suitcases and it was big fun!!! They were trying things, some of them had layers of different clothes on, it was fun! Everybody joined in, trying and fitting...Gabdesia was smiling a lot, for the first time since many days!!!!!





Thursday, October 9, 2014

Happy UHURU day!!!

Today Uganda celebrates 52 years Independence. It is a Public Holiday and in the towns there is marching in the centres of town. Of course, we can' t be free, for Amecet it is a normal working day. The cook is there to cook, the laundry lady to wash the dirty diapers and all the caretakers to take care of the children. The children were free form school and we have a house full!
Here are Walter (the boy I wrote about in my last blog) and Max on the Slide. 
 Cathy and Ruth are jumping in the trampoline, enjoying their free day from school.
 Max is walking so much!! He even can walk by him self, but here he pushes Walter around!
We wanted to bless our staff today, for coming to work on a public holiday! And we ordered a special lunch for everybody!
 The whole veranda full with happy eating people.
 We ordered pork from a place in town. It comes on one plate and everybody sits around it and eat! Even the little one's are enjoying it!
 The aunties are also eating and enjoying their soda!
 Gabdesia was sick this week, she had again severe malaria. It is very hard to get her eating and even drinking. But today she joined the group and she is eating the pork and potatoes!
Uncle Elias was the person to get the food and he receives his Pepsi from Emma.

I wrote in my last blog about the 2 brothers. The oldest boy, Walter, is doing really good, we treated him for his malaria and now he is playing all over the place, as you can see on these pictures. But we found out that he is HIV+. After a lot of asking we found out that he probably has been on ARV's, when he lived with his grandmother. But he doesn't know where that was or how long ago. We took him to the clinic to be put on ARV's from there, but they wanted more information. Walter mentioned a name of a village and Simon and Emma drove there and asked around. People brought Simon to a home, but it was a different lady. They went to several places where they give out ARV's, but nobody knew Walter. We have put a picture of them in the local Newspaper and asked people to contact us, when they recognise the two boys. The clinic in Soroti has put Walter now on ARV's. The little baby Thomas is not doing so well. He doesn't want to drink enough. We waited a bit, but today I put a NG tube down, so we can feed him while he is even sleeping. Maybe in a couple of days, he will pick up and start drinking himself, so we will take out the tube again.
Please keep praying for the two boys and their situation. That we will find their relatives.

Friday, October 3, 2014

Two brothers in need....

In my last blog I wrote about the 3 sets of twins we have in Amecet. Two of them went back to their relatives, Steve and Evelyn went back and also Mary and Betty were picked by their father. We have a good feeling about them being back home! It also gave a bit of space in Amecet, only a bit, because we have already 4 new children... One older boy, who was send by the doctor in Soroti hospital, he just needed some help and some place with rest and good food, he will probably go back to his village on Monday. Then a small boy, James, he is almost 18 months old. His mother died just 3 weeks ago and his father was desperate. He is with us, just to get a bit stronger and to give the father a break. But he will go back to his father and siblings. James is HIV+. En yesterday two other children came, brought by the Police. They were two brothers, the mother was mentally sick and was aggressive. They took the children from her and brought her for psychological help and the children to us.
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This are the children, the bigger boy might be 5 years old and the baby one month?
The baby was just covered with a dirty, cotton cloth,  and the baby was so skinny and small, but when he looked to us, we knew he was not a newborn baby. I took him directly (after bathing and dressing) to the doctor, He also thought he might be one month old or so. The baby was small, malnourished and had been a premature baby at birth. 
The older brother was limping, he spoke another language, no Atesso, but one of our staff spoke his language. So he could tell us his name, he was called Walter, he didn't know the name of his little brother, so we called the baby Thomas. Walter was also very malnourished, he had a big belly and the doctor said his spleen and liver were enlarged. we did several laboratory tests, and we found out that he was anemic and had malaria (severe). So we started directly malaria treatment. Poor boy, he was really sick. Today he couldn't walk, he was so weak! But with the food and when the malaria is over, he will be much better.
The little Thomas did much better today, yesterday he could only drink 20 ml. at the time, but today he made 50 ml. at the time. He is also a beautiful little boy, and when he looks at you, with his big eyes, you just can see (and feel) that he has been already through a lot in his little life!!

The Police is trying to find relatives of the mother, so they can go to their own people, but in the meantime it is good that they are now in Amecet. We can treat, feed and cuddle them!!!!

Monday, September 29, 2014

Twins, twins, twins and......twins?

Right now, we have 16 baby's in our home, and then I mean BABY'S!!! On top of that we have toddlers and bigger children. Among those 16 baby's are 3 sets of twins!! We mostly put them together in one bed, for the bonding. Twins are mostly getting the same name in Teso, the first born is called Opio (boy) or Apio (girl) and the second born is called Ocen (boy) or Acen (girl).
This are Acen Evelyn and Opio Steven, we separated them when they got a bit bigger. They were constantly kicking each other and waking each other up. Evelyn and Steven came in Amecet when they were two days old. It was for their safety, their mother is mentally sick and she wanted to kill them. They are now almost 6 months old, we have been trying to resettle them in their family, with the grandparents, but it didn't work out, we took them back. But now, finally they are leaving tomorrow (if all goes well)! They are beautiful children, smiling and (baby)talk the whole day. 
Then we have  Apio Mary and Acen Betty, they are now almost 2,5 month old. Their mother died after giving birth. In the beginning they were very sickly and crying, but nowe they do very well. They will go back to their father and sibblings.
Last week we got our last twins, Opio Gabriel and Ocen John, they are only 4 days old, they are drinking wel and we have high hopes for them.
Last week we were asked to come and see a lady in the maternity ward in the hospital. The lady is expecting twins and is 8 months pregnant. The mother is very sick and they don't know if she will make it. She was referred to Mulago hospital in Kampala, maybe they have to induce labour to save the lives of the baby's. If the baby's are well enough to leave the hospital (after delevery) They will probably come to Amecet for some time. A very sad situation. 
So we will have more twins!!!!

Thursday, September 25, 2014

A very difficult start for Gabriel and John...

When I drove home today, my phone went, it was the doctor from Soroti hospital. he asked if we could help, a mother, who gave birth through a Cesarean operation had died, leaving two little twin boys behind.
I picked my children and drove back to Amecet, the children stayed there and Janet, one of our staff, went with me to the hospital. We found the grandmother with the two baby's. The story was so sad, the mother needed a Cesarean operation and all went well. They came back on the ward, she was laid back on the bed and a little later they found her dead. 
The grandmother was very happy that we wanted to help her with the baby's and after explaining everything and filling the forms, she signed with a thumbprint on our papers. We took the 2 little boys who got their names Gabriel Opio and John Ocen. 
Janet holds the two little baby's while I drive back to Amecet. 
 In Amecet, we weighed the two boys, they are very big for twins! The first born weighs 3,1 kg and the second one weighs 2,680 kg. That is a good size for twins! We gave them a bath and then....
the feeding. Janet and Janneke both took one, they don´t drink a lot yet, but it is good to give them something every 3 hours. We prayed for them, they had just such a difficult start in life, but everything looks good. We will do the best we can and we pray that the family will take over in a couple of months.

Going to school...

This morning, while were sitting on the veranda, feeding baby's, we heard someone shouting.... It was Max, uncle Calvin had been picking guava's from the tree and Max was bringing them to us! This is the same Max from the story on July 5th!!! It is so amazing, when I left for my break to Holland in June, I said goodbye to Max, knowing that I would not see him again, because he was dying at that time! But God had another plan, he can walk on his own, with the help of the stroller, so you can see him all over the place, behind the stroller. He goes quite fast and sometimes your hear some screaming, than he is stuck in a bush, because his co-ordination is not too good. He is still different, he can really abuse people verbally, he doesn't know his boundary's, but he is doing so much better!!
When older children come to Amecet, we try to let them go to school as soon as they are able to do so. Gabdesia is a girl of 13 years old, she came to Amecet in August. She was very weak, got malaria and was really sick, but now she is doing good. We asked her if she wanted to go to school, because we have seen that going to school is so good for them, they are like  "normal" children, they getting a big boost from it. On Monday she went for the first day, she loved it!!!! We start with half days, so she can rest in the afternoon, because we don't want her to get sick again. This morning she was under the shower at 4 am!!!! At 5 am she was ready to go to school, but the bus comes at 7.15 am, so she has been coloring for more that an hour this morning.You can really see that going to school gives them an enthousiasm, energy and hope for the future! Gipas is a boy of 13 years old, he also started school on Monday and he is glowing all over! On Monday he was so tired, he slept the whole afternoon, but now he is picking up. He loves his new schoolbag and is proud of his uniform.
On this picture, they are brought back to Amecet by the school bus, left Gabdesia  and right Gipas.
Tomorrow we will bring Christine back to her mother. You can read her story in the blog of 12 September. We will give her a schoolbag, books and a pencil. She will go to school in the village, so we also give some money to make her a uniform. Christine is doing well and she is now ready to make the big move, back to the village. And going to school will be good for her, to go back to normal life.